It happened one of two ways. In my version I've already been rejected by her and we've already slept together and the whole thing is kind of absurd. But I really remember it that way. I remember that feeling. But if it happened when the computer, when the emails and chats that are stored on the a server somewhere that I look at on my computer, say it happened, then I was still trying to get with her and he was still with her. Which makes more sense but also makes me seem like more of a dick I think. Who is right?